I had the pleasure of teaching my kids Gaston and Hannah tennis, golf, soccer, basketball and track with the help of other professionals in each sport. They both are now tennis instructors and love what they do! My son Gaston, won the individual state title in high school and was the hitting partner for many well known professional women's players for a few years until he recently accepted a coaching position at The Citadel. 

Between the time frame of him being eight to eighteen years old we embarked on an incredible ten year journey together that was filled with ups and downs, trials and triumphs. What kept me going? What made me stay with my kids and put in quality time to make sure they were grounded not only as athletes but good people? What made me pass up other professional opportunities that came my way? 

There was only one thing I would remind myself. I would say, "Marc, you do not get this time back." My plan was to be able to look at my kids and them look at me and say, "Dad, you gave us your all." I believe every father wants to do what they think is best to provide a good life for their families. We all have had seasons in life when we pushed very hard to make our financial goals become reality. But at what cost? Somethings you cannot purchase regardless of how successful you are. Having a great relationship with your kids is what will secure your legacy down the road. 

So, as you evaluate your time, personal and professional goals, ask yourself, Are your kids on your spreadsheet of dreams?

Remember, you do not get this time back!